I Kept Attracting the Same Man in Different Bodies

Until I Saw the Pattern Hidden in My BaZi Chart

I’m Ren Water (壬水, Rén Shuǐ) — intuitive, flowing, emotionally deep. But for years, I felt buried, misunderstood, like I was drowning in a world that wanted me quiet.

My family is full of Earth (土, Tǔ) and Metal (金, Jīn). In BaZi, Earth controls Water. Metal shapes it. It took me decades to understand why I always felt like I was being controlled, drained, or silenced.

I once dated someone — not terrible, but off. It felt familiar. I was giving too much. Shrinking again. Then I married a Geng Metal (庚金, Gēng Jīn) Day Master — structured, ambitious, driven. But his chart was buried under heavy Earth. I tried to flow around him, but kept getting blocked.

I'm not divorced. But I’m not blind anymore either. BaZi showed me what therapy couldn't: It wasn’t just bad choices. It was a karmic cycle I was born into — and now I’m breaking it.

Solairaé™ was never just a business idea. It was my survival instinct turned into a system. A way to finally see myself — and help other women decode their emotional patterns before they get buried too.

I built Solairaé™ in the middle of the fire. Not after healing — but while still burning. That’s why it works.